October 22, 2010

How Do You Say Peekaboo in Xhosa?

We've spent a month each in Trujillo, Peru and Paris, but Cape Town will end up as our longest stay on this trip.  Why did we decide to stay here for so long?  In addition to being ridiculously beautiful (we'll have pictures up at some point), the city is also home to our second volunteering project.

For six weeks, we are volunteering at Baphumelele Children's Home, a sanctuary for orphaned, abandoned or neglected children.  The home is located in Khayelitsha, the largest township (in South Africa, a term referring to Apartheid holdover non-white settlements on the periphery of urban centers) in the Cape Town area with 1.5 million people people living in shanties.  The residents here face poverty, some of the highest crime rates in the developed world, and frighteningly high HIV infection rates.  In fact, HIV/AIDS is the reason many of the children are orphans, and a number of them are infected themselves.

Baphumelele looks after over 200 kids of varying ages, but Magge and I focus on the "Baby House", a group of nearly thirty three month to three year olds.  We, and four other volunteers on our shift, assist four full time caregivers in this task.  The primary chores are helping to prepare bottles and food, feeding, brushing teeth, bathing, but most of all we play with them.  We're supposed to "attempt to carry out at least one activity" per play session, but anyone who has dealt with kids that age knows a structured activity is an unlikely event.  Thirty kids that age that barely speak or understand English (their first language is Xhosa) running around a room makes it extra unlikely.  If I can get a kid to play catch or sing a song with me, I chalk one up in the success column.

Even though the ratio of adults to children seems good, being in the Baby House can still be overwhelming.  The kids are all craving adult attention, and they swarm anyone that walks through the door.  If I sit down, there are immediately three rugrats squirming their way into my lap.  There are always a few kids crying, and they don't listen to the volunteers very well (probably due to a combination of the language barrier and the itinerant nature of the volunteers).  Some of them have behavioral or even neurological issues, and dealing with them can be taxing.  One child, whom Magge guesses suffers from fetal alcohol syndrome, lacks coordination and has to wear a helmet as he stumbles around the room, knocking others down to the floor.  He's taken a liking to Magge, and she does a fantastic job of showing him attention when some of the other volunteers prefer to ignore him.

Thankfully, the long, intense days are balanced by a schedule that allows us to recharge and explore the Cape Town area.  We work in three day shifts; when we're on shift, we stay in the Baphumelele complex, and our off shift time is spent in a house just outside of Cape Town.  Aviva, the organization that administers the volunteer program at Baphumelele along with various other programs across the country, organizes activities for its volunteers and provides plenty of resources.  Both Magge and I have been impressed with how well the operation is run and it is definitely a nice change from our disorganized time with Bruce Peru in Trujillo.  We've already been here for one week and are very much looking forward to the next five.

6 comments:

  1. A very difficult volunteer program but will be very rewarding. You will do great with these kids and these will benefit greatly from spending time with you. It will be hard to leave these kids behind after six weeks of interaction.

    Your days off will also be jam-packed with activities. You guys never stop! You will need a vacation to recover from this year-long trip.

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  2. I would be interested in what HIV meds they are using for the children, if you know. There are so many new ones out but may not be available for them.
    Have you met any of the other workers? If so where are they from?
    That is a wonderful thing you are doing.

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  3. Good question of Lee's; do the kids get treated for their HIV with specific HIV meds? Glad you are looking forward to the next several weeks, and be careful - don't let the kids bite you.

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  4. Oh my stars, Since Lucie, Lee and Mike have already posted I do not have to race through reading to childishly be the first one to post. I love what you are doing, and admire you both for it. It is a wonderful thing. I need a Lucie emoticon to put here!

    I was with a patient when the post came up doing one of the things I love the most, helping figure out positioning and seating for a lady who can barely hold her head up. I have been working with her for a few days now, and she was sitting up almost straight in a new wheelchair, we still need to tweak things a bit, but man the difference was amazing and so exciting for this lady.

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  5. We directly work with 4 other people at Baphumelele, and when we're off shift, we share the house with another 2 people working on a different project. There are another 10 or so other volunteers on the other shift that we only see in passing as we switch. Everyone's from either the US, Canada, the UK or Norway.

    The kids are on HIV meds, but I do not know what they are. They prefer that we not know which kids have HIV so we don't treat them any differently, so I haven't asked many questions about it. I will try to find out, though.

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  6. We're trying to avoid getting bitten; however, I did end up with three instances of bleeding children in my arms during our first shift. The fact that I didnt have a clue who had HIV and who didnt was a bit unnerving. For some reason all the bleeding children kept running to me. I was worried the women who worked there were going to start thinking I was doing something to make the children bleed even though I was across the room from them when the accidents happened most of the time!

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